Over the past few years, I have been coming to this website every time I was feeling down. I would read the stories for hours and hours and they would actually make me feel better. I would constantly visualize submitting my own story here.
Nothing completely horrible has ever happened to me. I had an amazing childhood, decent friends. Things were OK. I wanted more than OK and in that race, I became my own worst enemy. I compared myself and my achievements to that of others.
I think the real switch for me came when I accepted that the law of attraction is not something you practice. It just is. The internalization of that concept is what brought me out of my perpetual rut. I actively started looking for things, good or bad, that happened because I was in a certain state of mind. I accepted the negative things that happened as things I attracted. That made me happy. I knew that I was in complete control.
From there I started focusing on the end goal. I removed the concept of ‘how’ from my mind. Every setback was a move toward my ultimate goal, as was every happy event.
Today I have everything I could have ever wanted. I am extremely happy.
So just relax. You are in control. Be happy about it.