I wanted to finally put into words what I’ve been experiencing since 2009. During that year I was living with my ex-boyfriend for nearly 6 years. It had been a long relationship, but I wasn’t happy at that time, especially because despite living together I always felt very lonely and very sad. My ex-boyfriend and I didn’t share many things together He was always busy with the PC and eventually started playing poker online and started to take part in live competitions that took the most of our “quality time” as a couple away. He did not care much if I was OK or not, or if I was sad, or if I needed something.
In the same year I worked with an osteopath who was a gentle, charming, and handsome man. While treating patients together he told me how he got to know his wife and always told me stories about his three children. Talking to him always made me feel relaxed and positive. I don’t know how, but he always had a positive influence on me.
One day I started thinking: “I want a man with his inner skills and his way of behaving, always gentle and positive. I want to find a man that reminds me of him.” So I started to do my “crazy game”: I simply imagined a story of me finding my soul mate with all the inner qualities I wanted. The most crazy thing is that I immediately began telling this story to all my clients I work with in the gym. I told everything as if it was true, although I still was in the relationship with my ex-boyfriend. This is the story I told:
“I said that I had left my boyfriend because I wasn’t happy and wanted to stay alone. Then, a colleague of mine, who I knew was also in a relationship, started telling me that he was unhappy too. After some time of sharing our stories, I noticed that my colleague was very much into me; soon after he left his girlfriend and wanted to stay with me because he fell so strongly in love with me. Then, after 2 months we officially got together and after 6 months of dating we started living together being very, very happy. I even said some details about my soul mate: we worked together, we got to know each other at work, he is sporty (loves cycling, running and swimming), lives in a specific suburb area near Milan. He isn’t handsome but is smiling, charming, active, and very romantic. He’s got only his mother, because his father died not so long ago. He immediately got a crush on me and after ending it with his ex-girlfriend, he didn’t think of any other girl in his life but me.”
I started telling this story two years ago to all my clients in the gym, really believing in it although I knew it was pure imagination. And what has happened so far? In 2010, last year, I left my boyfriend because our lives really fell apart from each other. I became strong enough to take care of myself and let the past go. So, in February 2010 I left. For the rest of the time I focused on rebuilding myself, my self-esteem, and my life as a single lady. I eventually got to know other guys during this year, but was never interested in getting in a new relationship. I continued telling this story to the clients and I continued to believe me and my soul mate are happy together. I always spoke of my soul mate and my beautiful life with him.
In February 2011, two months ago, a new colleague started working in my gym. After getting to know him during these two months, I’m completely in shock by the elements of my story that fit with him!
– He works with me.
– He lives in that specific suburb area near Milan that I imagined.
– He is sporty: does cycling, running and swimming.
– He’s got no father, only his mum.
– His outward appearance reminds me of the osteopath I worked with.
– I know he’s got a crush on me, because he becomes nervous when he talks to me or even if he sits down to eat something with me. He always looks at me – we actually talk!
– He’s got a girlfriend but somehow he lets me understand that he’s not happy with her. When he talks about her, he doesn’t smile, he doesn’t want to live with her, and they don’t share many things together, as me and my ex-boyfriend did.
I don’t know what is going to happen next, but I wanted to share my crazy game and my crazy story. I don’t know how, but I know that something’s going on and I’m still in shock about what has happened so far. I never thought I would leave my ex-boyfriend. When I told this story, I thought it was a game to escape the pain I was living at that time, it was simply a game, a joke. But I somehow believed in it, because I was very enthusiastic when I told it to the people.
Stay tuned! Who knows what’s happening next?
Thank you Rhonda for all the useful tricks you give to help us live the best way possible!
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