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Just Choose To Be Happy.
Submitted by: JB
Thailand-
Hello guys.
First, sorry for my English, it’s not my mother tongue. I first read The Secret when I was dumped by someone who I used to love so much and I could not imagine the future without him in it. He told me he did not feel the same way about me and that he felt that he was in love with another girl. Then he left me in pain for more than 5 months. I can say that it was the worst time of my life. I did everything just to have him back. I always had him on my mind all the time, I could not sleep and I could not eat.
Then one day The Secret appeared in my life. I pictured myself with him and us getting back together. Days passed and he sent an email to me saying that he did not want anything to do with me anymore and that I was just a mistake in his life. I decided to stop trying and to give up on everything and just let it be. I did everything that I could to make myself forget about him. I started to be happier and I found that I had lost myself to please someone else.
Then, not so long ago, I met another guy and he is so nice. He came to a girl like me who told herself that she was not going to love someone else again and he came into my life and changed everything. I want to say thank you to that person I was with in my past. Thank you for being in my life for some time and for leaving me in pain so that I could finally know how to stand on my own. So I could learn how to be happy on my own.
You guys who have lost your partners, I know how you are feeling right now. I felt it before too. Just keep going, you have to live for yourself and you have to be happy for yourself. Life is short, do not waste your time on something that makes you hurt. I swear when the time comes and you will get everything that you deserve. Stay beautiful.
Thank you to The Secret writers and for all the stories. You all are my big supporters who helped me walk through all the bad times. Thanks to my ex, who messaged me when I had already gotten someone even better. Thanks to him who made me know how bad people can feel when they are dumped by their loved ones.
Please never give up and stay pretty, stay happy. I was the one who used to think that it was impossible to spend the future without him. But today I can say it out loud, that I only need myself and I only want myself to be happy because in the bad times, there is only myself who is here and never leaves.
Love to you guys.