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It only gets better :)
Submitted by: Maria B.
Canada21 and have been in love with the love of my life since I was 15.
I’d like to thank everyone for sharing their lovely and inspiring stories. My dad had introduced me to The Secret and when he made me watch the movie with him I did not care to take in the knowledge and information that it offered.
I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 6 years now and throughout those years we have been on and off but every time we got back together our relationship would change in a good way. A few months back we got off track again. He had a new job where he worked a month at a place that’s about a 7 hour drive away from home and was off for only 14 days. I was also in University at the time so we barely spent time together on his days off. I remembered that my dad had told me about The Secret so I decided to check it out.
I came to this site and read story after story of people’s relationships and how amazing they turned out to be because they believed. It inspired me to believe and I even got excited and anxious to try this on my relationship. I read a stories for about a week because I did not have The Secret, the movie or The Power but I really wanted them. One day my cousin was able to drive me to the book store in the local mall and I bought The Secret and The Power and unfortunately they were all out of the movie. As I got home and looked at my new books I noticed on the cover of the The Secret it said “Bonus DVD”. It was the movie, The Secret, and I couldn’t believe it. This small experience made me believe so much more and I was so excited I told my dad about it.
As I practiced the Law of Attraction, I began to realize that my relationship wasn’t getting any better and I began to doubt, but I didn’t stop believing. I had visualized and written down my favorite moments and memories I’ve had with him. I had also written down memories and moments we will create with one another in the future. I even continually told myself I would post my story on this site once I had received it. I’d wake up every day and be grateful for anything and every thing.
After about a month we had a conversation and I said things I thought I could never say. I basically told him what I want out of our relationship as he had doubts and wasn’t sure what I wanted. We talked every day while he was at work for a month after that and I’ve never had such exciting and happy conversations with him. He told me he loved me every day before he’d go to work and would leave messages for me to read on Facebook when I woke up.
After about 3 weeks, he ended up getting a new job that was 10 days on and 10 days off and only an hour and half drive away from home. I never realized it but I had wished and hoped that he would get a job where we would be closer to one another and I got it. When he told me I was jumping in my living room, full of pure happiness.
He just went back to work for 10 days and we had the best 10 days together while he was off. I actually had butterflies in my stomach when I saw him for the first time after about a month. I felt happiness I had forgot I could feel. I continue to have small doubts about us and him doing something that may hurt me again, but I know I need to stay positive, keep those negative thoughts away and believe. I believe that one of the main reasons as to why we’ve been on and off so much is because I continued to put so much negative thoughts into our relationship before and I didn’t realize this until about 3 months ago. I can’t wait for our relationship to continually fill with happiness, joy and trust.
Always believe and always have faith. Things may not come as fast as you want them to, but they will come. 🙂