Difficulty Creates Opportunity
Hi everyone. I am so grateful that I am able to write on this website for the second time around. I have to say firstly, how grateful I am to Rhonda Byrne and the rest of The Secret team for changing my life.
Well I had first began to use The Secret back in September 2012 when my boyfriend broke up with me and then I applied The Magic and we got back together in November. Then I stopped using it again and I had consistently practiced one of the magic practices where I look at the picture of my boyfriend and say Thank you. I did this three times a day. I lost the picture during February and I figured I would be fine. He broke up with me again and he said I want you to find someone else and he said that he couldn’t be in a relationship and that he wouldn’t be able to reciprocate the actions of being in a relationship with me for a long long time. He then blocked me on Facebook and just lost all contact. I was completely in pain. I couldn’t move at all. I got upset with him and I started to become really negative. I attracted even more negative things. My mom came to town and she wasn’t supportive at all of our relationship. She just kept giving me bad vibes and I was letting it get to me and I realized I was attracting all of this.
I watched The Secret video the week and the minute I started watching it, my life changed. I realized that it wasn’t my thoughts that were affecting me, but my feelings. I remembered in the video it said you are getting what you are feeling about, not what you are thinking about. From this point on, I made an effort to get a magic rock that I would carry every where with me. I also got a bracelet and called it my gratitude bracelet and each time I look at it I would say three things I am grateful for. I also got a bracelet that would help me have faith so I could bring my boyfriend back to me. I also started the whole magic book and it helped me become more positive. I really took everything in and really made an effort to practice it. I also watched The Secret over and over and I also made my own video about my relationship with my boyfriend and I watched it two times a day.
Doing the magic practices help me become so much more positive about my boyfriend and I visualized everyday that I was back in his house. I followed the relationship practices from the magic and whenever I would feel bad I would do the practices even if it meant doing it three times a day. I also painted a picture of me and my boyfriend together.
I made a statement to the universe that I would like my boyfriend to come back to me before I leave school on May 1st. I also had a top ten desires list and looked at that once a day and really got into the feelings, along with my visualization board.
So time passed and each day I felt more hopeful and more excited to know that my boyfriend would come back to me. My faith and belief grew more and more and I knew the universe would take care of the how, all i had to focus on is the what. Within a week by life changed, my mom became more understanding and my grades improved, I attracted little things I wanted to see such as deer, butterflies and the moon and the stars and I live in the city of Baltimore, so seeing these things was amazing. I even attracted money.
When it came to my boyfriend I believed that he was already with him and we were back together. Long story short, he came back to me before I left for school in May. The universe took care of the how, all I had to do was believe in the what! It all came true. I didn’t know how it would work out since he cut me off, but he friended me again on Facebook and talked to me. He told me that he truly does love me and that I am the only girl in the world for him! I am so happy and grateful everyday. When I got back to school in September he proposed to me just how I imagined it as well. It’s amazing how your life can change in one week. It felt like forever but it only happened within a span of three months which went by fast. All I have to say is never stop believing! Anything is possible! In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity! Just believe! the Universe will take care of the how, just believe in the what! You will accomplish it if you believe you can do it!!!