I got my magical closure
Ever since I read The Secret, I’ve been trying to apply it to my life, but it wasn’t until I read The Magic recently which made me see things in a whole new light.
Like Rhonda said in the book, I thought I was a thankful person too, however it seems I was not truly grateful.
In short, I found it hard to get over a relationship which ended 5 months ago. I gave him countless chances since then and he kept leading me on then letting me down. About a month ago, he stopped all contact with me without any explanation. I tried calling, texting and never got any replies. It’s been a month now and I still have nothing. As you can imagine I was so confused, a few weeks before this, this guy was telling me to give him a chance to prove himself and saying he wanted to give us another go.
I decided to magically heal the relationship by listing 10 things I was grateful for about him. The following morning I counted my blessings and at the end I said ‘Thank you for the great news coming to me today’. To my surprise, I got a phone call later in the evening from my friend, telling me that she went out last night to a bar and in walked my ex boyfriend! (even though he lives no where near this bar). She said she went to speak to him and found out his feelings towards us. I was so happy, as I knew that The Magic had attracted this to me. Even though this guy was not speaking to me, the universe found a way to let me know what was on his mind through my friend.
My friend went on to say that he wouldn’t call because he didn’t think there was much point in the relationship any more and acted as though he could have me whenever he wanted. I never thought he would think of me like that and I probably would have answered his calls/agreed to meet him again if I hadn’t known this. I saw this as a blessing that I am worth much more than his disrespect and that I shouldn’t waste my time worrying about him.
This all happened after 2 days of reading the first couple of chapters of The Magic, I was so amazed that it worked so quickly and now I continue to believe. Even though my relationship didn’t ‘heal’ as such I felt that it healed my heart, knowing I could put the relationship to rest and for that I am truly grateful.