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I Fought For Love And I Won.
Submitted by: Kenalee
CanadaI have believed in The Secret for some time now! Each day has continued to get better and better, and I know it will only continue to keep moving in that direction as long as I believe :)
If you are reading this story, you may be in the place I was about 9 months ago, you may be in the place I am today, or you may be somewhere in between. Where ever you are, just know that if you believe and continue to believe you will get to where you want to be.
About 9 months ago it was mid September/early October and I had been dating my boyfriend for 6 months, or so. The first 3-5 months were absolutely amazing! I was convinced he was the love of my life and I was going to spend the rest of my life as happy as I could be! A complete dream come true! But… things dramatically changed when he moved a couple of hours away for school. Side note: We are still pretty young, 19 and 23.
Things didn’t change all at once, but from the time he left to the time he came back and for months after that, my world had been turned upside down. We would be okay during the week, and then when the weekend would come around he would turn into a different guy. Going out until early hours, not replying to my messages or calls, and basically leaving me in the dark. The complete opposite of what I had fallen in love with.
After endless nights of loneliness and tears I couldn’t decide whether to give up or fight even harder. That is when I turned to The Secret for help. I had practiced the Law Of Attraction long before this, but figured it was useless now that things were falling apart.
By now it was New Years and things had hit rock bottom. The morning of January 1st I gave him an ultimatum. We went on a break for a couple weeks, only seeing each other once or twice. The whole time I tried to use the LOA to my strongest ability to make him see what he had to do to make things work, and vice versa. I still had my doubts, though. We got back together and things were better, for awhile.
We broke up once again later in March and it was the worst time of my life. I once again turned to The Secret. I knew I needed to be happy first, prior to getting involved with anybody else. I felt like I needed him to be happy, but the truth is I AM the only one who can truly accomplish that. Once you know how to be happy on your own, then you can take the next step with someone else.
That is when things dramatically changed, once again, but this time for the better.
Long story short, we got back together after a month of separation and I am so grateful to say that I am happier than I have ever been! WE are happier than we’ve ever been!! Through all the ups and downs of our relationship we learned that we need to be happy individually and as one.
Also, to let go of the past and the negativity that kept dragging us down. I thought he was gone, and I would be unhappy for a long, long time, but now we are stronger than ever! We are talking about the here and now, and the future! Something he used to hate thinking about.
I hope that wherever you are, just know that if you put your mind to being happy, and everything else will fall in to place.
Maybe not the first time, or even the second.
But by asking and believing you WILL receive when the time is right! Just like I did 🙂