Search Topics
I Didn’t Get My Ex Back And That’s Okay!
Submitted by: Nky.
NigeriaAn unapologetic optimist and a hopeless romantic, just here to tell my story because I feel someone needs to hear it. Thank you for sharing.
My story is a bit long but I hope my experience can uplift anyone who is going through a tough time because of a lover.
I met someone who I fell in love with instantly. The relationship is by far the shortest I’ve ever been in but it had the most impact on my life and existence. The first month of the relationship was blissful but things began to deteriorate afterward. We were undoubtedly in love but we fought over every little thing and the fights usually escalated. We would break up and block each other on Instagram and WhatsApp. Then, within a few hours, we would be back together again.
This went on for months. We just couldn’t get it right until one day he broke up with me and that was the end, he didn’t come back like before. I was devastated. I begged and cried but he was done with the relationship and nothing would change his mind.
This was the beginning of the worst time in my life. I fell into a serious depression. I stopped eating, stopped singing and listening to music, deactivated all my social media accounts so I didn’t have any contact with anyone. I begged and begged him for a few weeks until I decided to let him be. It was this horrible time in my life that lead me to seek help.
I knew about the law of attraction but not extensively so I Googled “how to get my ex back using the law of attraction” and I was directed to this site. I read stories of people that used the LOA to get their ex’s back. I was so thrilled and wished I had this knowledge earlier. That was when the turn around started. I purchased The Secret, How The Secret Changed My life, The Magic, and The Power. I followed the teachings and created my first Vision board. I made a screenshot of things I wanted to attract into my reality like more friends, starting to go out again, more money, hiking, food, and an airplane window seat as I had never even entered an airplane before. And, most importantly, I had pictures of people who were in love. I used these images as wallpaper on my iPad and laptop.
Within one month I attracted everything on that vision board. I had so much money, I went out so much that I started turning down invitations to hang out, I hiked and entered an airplane for the first time in my life and I had the window seat! I attracted so many amazing things even a new charger for my MacBook for free! And I got a job I loved.
I had everything except my ex. I did everything the books asked. I sang to him every night before going to bed, I bought an extra toothbrush for him in my bathroom, I kept visualizing but nothing happened. Instead, I kept attracting men that made me feel worse. It became a cycle.
On his birthday I prayed and asked God if I should send him a birthday message. I got a ‘yes’ and I was happy and sent him mail. I got a reply the next day and he clearly stated that he wanted nothing to do with me. I was so hurt and I cried. I couldn’t understand why the one person I wanted the most in the whole world, didn’t want me. I even asked God why he told me to send him a message when he knew I would get a response that would hurt me.
The reply I got was that I needed to let go! Simple. I was so obsessed with getting him back, I felt somewhat empty without him, so of course, I kept attracting relationships that made me feel even more empty.
Well after that I stopped obsessing over the idea of getting him back but I still didn’t let go until one night when I felt I had had enough. I got down on my knees and cried to God. I begged God to take control of my heart and emotions and to fix me. I told the Universe to teach me how to let go because I clearly couldn’t do it on my own.
I then fell asleep and like magic, I felt like a new person the next morning. For the first time in one and a half years, I thought of my ex and felt so indifferent towards him. I felt a sudden peace I had never felt before. I just knew that the Universe and God knew what was best for me and I would be taken care of. I knew I was completely restored when I didn’t jump at every story that had to do with getting an ex back on this site and I started skipping them. That’s something I had never done since I discovered this website.
Please stop obsessing over any ex. Nobody is indispensable guys. Letting go of our desires is one of the hardest things to do but it is the quickest way to get what you want. If you find it difficult to let go, go down on your knees now and ask God or the Universe to help you just like I did. Don’t come here looking for stories on how to get an ex back. I believe some people come into our lives to restructure our lives and teach us what love isn’t so that we can grasp it when it finally comes. The lessons I learned during this difficult period are ones that I could not have learned any other way. I am so much better now! Love wins always. If he or she is meant for you, the Universe will deliver them to you without any hassle.
God bless you, Rhonda Byrne. I wish I could send gifts to you because words alone can not express how grateful I am to you. Your books changed my life.