I Asked For Him!
In 2009 I was hanging out with my friends. We were all single and I was telling them my dating horror stories. I explained that I felt I was meant to be single.
They all knew about The Secret and I didn’t. They told me to get the book. Well, I finally did and realized what I was doing wrong in my dating life. I couldn’t find my happily-ever-after because there wasn’t room in my life for him. I also wasn’t asking the universe for my perfect guy.
After focusing on my career and making room for the guy, I sat down and really thought about what I wanted in a man. I was specific in making my list. Some of the things I included were: He had to be 6’3 or taller, love kids but not want any more, came from a close family who would accept me and my kids into theirs, didn’t have drama with his ex, etc. The list was long.
1 1/2 weeks later I was browsing a free dating website. I landed on a profile that grabbed my attention. I had this urgent sense to email him right then and then I got an email from him the same moment I hit send!
We ended up talking most of that night and a few days later we met in person. On our first date, we were standing outside of a restaurant looking at the menu displayed. He stood behind me and wrapped his arms around my shoulders. I knew right then that he was the one I had asked for.
He has every single quality I wrote on my list years ago. We’ve been together for 3 years now and will be getting married in 2015.