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How The Secret Makes Things Clear Up
Submitted by: Barbora
Budapest, HungaryA young girl learning to live The Secret in every day's life :)
Hello,
I would like to share with you my story how of The Secret changed my life, especially my Relationship.
Like most of the people, I was living my life from day to day. Not satisfied with everything but things were okay. I had a boyfriend and he was amazing but I wasn’t satisfied with anything he did even though he made so much effort.
I thought I should break up with him and look for someone who can make me really happy.
I heard about The Secret from a friend who also had similar “problem”. She wasn’t grateful for her relationship and even though she had a boyfriend of her dreams, he broke up with her and she was broken. I didn’t want this to happen to me ! I watched the movie.
Since then I realized the issue was not my relationship and my boyfriend. On the other hand, I realized how awesome he really was and how much he loved me. The problem was in me. I wasn’t grateful, I took all I got from him for granted and expected him to make me happy.
The thing is that I understood I have to find happiness in me. I started to see the good things instead of the bad. I tried to focus on feeling good instead of being depressed. I have to say it wasn’t easy, but I longed for a perfect relationship and I believed I could have it with my gorgeous boyfriend who was always there for me.
Since I changed my mindset, everything changed. My relationship turned 180 degrees. I show more love and I get much more back. I focus on little happy things and I am more happy than before. There are negative moments as well, but I take it as the way to help me to better value the good things.
I am so grateful for every day, that I wake up and it’s a blank page which I can fill with love and affection and that I get 1000 times more love and affection back.
This I couldn’t see before and I am so happy that The Secret opened my eyes.
Don’t give up ! What you are looking for might be just next you, just open your eyes and be really thankful 🙂