How I Got Over Him Without Closure.
So I met this guy a year ago. It was love at first sight for me but whenever I tried to talk to him, he would ignore and insult me. He gave me mixed signals by being nice sometimes and bad other times. Because I stayed in another city, I had no chance of meeting him again but I still felt love for him. So I asked him out and he kept me hanging. First, he said he was shocked and didn’t even remember me but later wanted to meet with me. I told him everything I felt for him but he would not tell me what was on his mind. Every time I did this he would hide his feelings, I cried. He never called and when I did, he would disconnect! I was frustrated, desperate, and broken. I at least needed an answer or some closure! He wasn’t giving me any of that so I felt he was not letting me leave or stay. Meanwhile, I’d told everyone that I was in love with him, even my mom. But I knew nothing about him as he avoided my questions.
Months passed and it was unbearable! I decided to take it as a ‘No’ and leave him. Like always, he didn’t stop me. I missed him so much and cried. It affected my health. After 4 months, I decided to write some good things that this experience brought me. I also sent him ‘lots of love’ in my mind as I realized he had no love to offer. That helped me, and now I don’t miss him. Of course, sometimes I do but I don’t cry anymore. I know the Universe loves me and it wants me to have the best man, the one who deserves me! I believe love is forever or never. So I let him go. It feels awesome, no more waiting for calls or messages. I love myself and so does the Universe!
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!