I Got Him Back And A Lot More!
I’d like to start my story by saying that you must believe it is possible to retrieve what you want. It may seem hard and you will have ups and downs but believe me and all other believers; it is worth it and you will receive exactly what you have asked for in the end! I read stories and advice on the website and in the book, I followed tips from other people in similar situations and stayed positive as much as I possibly could, through a hard time.
Thank you to Rhonda Byrne and her entire team. You really are an inspiration to people of all ages, in all situations. I would also like to thank everyone who submitted their stories. These helped me massively to stay positive. I would turn to the website whenever I felt down to boost myself up again and to remove the deep sickness and worrying feeling I had for a week before turning to The Secret.
Me and my boyfriend had been arguing for weeks on end. We were not as happy as we once were and we stayed together for ease and routine. We had a big argument and didn’t speak for a few days, but then we met and both decided to give it another go. We were better for a few days but things again, went downhill very quickly. We had another big argument one evening and I left, expecting us to sort things out or discuss things after some time apart. He didn’t contact me, so I called him and he said that he was done, he didn’t want to be with me and asked me to not contact him. I agreed even though I didn’t want to finish things. The first few days were the hardest and of course, I messaged him and asked how and why he would walk away from this. I asked to meet him he didn’t want to. I texted and he either ignored me or took ages to reply and when he did reply he was nasty and blunt. I called, no answer. I was heartbroken and didn’t know what to do with myself. I lost weight as I wasn’t eating much and laid awake at night worrying, thinking of all the negatives, blaming him for things that went wrong and couldn’t understand why he wasn’t coming back to me.
I then remembered The Secret and began reading it again. I watched the film and also ordered other books to boost my positivity. I got “The Power”, “The Secret Daily Teachings” and “The Magic”. Even though I recommend all the books, The Magic was amazing. I practiced Days 3, Day 7, Day 13 and Day 15 a lot.
I read the other books too and learnt that instead of blaming him and holding onto grudges, I should forgive him for the things that had happened and send him loving thoughts throughout the day. The Secret teaches to give love. You can not give love if you are constantly thinking negative thoughts. You can not give love if you constantly think about everything you don’t love, or things that could have been better. I made sure to be positive and to truly believe that I had him back. I repeated the process and woke up in the mornings, giving thanks for everything I have and even for things that I was looking to receive, by believing I already had them.
I also learned to let go. Now this is something that can be massively misinterpreted and misconceived; you must learn the real meaning of The Secret and “letting go” of something.
I wrote a letter to the Universe asking for a better relationship, for a better financial status, for a good job and for my life to get better in general. I forgot about the letter and continued with my daily routines being positive and thanking the Universe. I let go of every negative thought and all of the negative energy or worry I had because I believed that everything that I have wanted and have asked for, would come true. I stopped trying to contact him. I kept myself busy and met with friends. I even met another The other boy was lovely and helped me completely forget and let go of all the negativity I did have! This was when I knew how to truly “let go”. Even if you don’t have someone to help you forget or move forward with your feelings, go to a friend, a family member or a pet and you will be able to regain those positive thoughts, without worry.
Right fully letting go, he contacted me. He said he had made a mistake, he missed me and asked me to meet him. Two days later I decided to meet him. It was like the 4 weeks that had passed had never happened. We spoke about everything and decided to give it another go. Of course, like many breakups, getting back into the swing of things can be hard. We took things slow, we had our odd argument, but we were great and getting on very well.
I continued to practice The Secret for a week or 2, but after that I thought things were fine, so I forgot to do it. Then, of course things went back downhill. We split up again. Now, this time I knew what the cause of our break up was and I knew what I had to do. I forgave him for the arguments, I forgave myself and did not contact him. I knew the Universe would see through my fall-back and would give me back what I wanted.
We are now back together again but this time we are amazing! There are no silly arguments, no getting angry, no blaming, no grudges and most of all, no negativity! Later he told me that he had always wanted this to work but he did not want me to let him down. He told me that he wanted to spend his life with me and have a family, just like we had always dreamed of. He told me everything I that I had wanted to hear after all of this time. Without The Secret I would never have gained back this amazing relationship with my soul mate.
Now I use always The Secret for my daily life. I have gained a new job, my business on the side is flourishing and I am earning double the amount of money I used to. I have got a new car and I am moving to an amazing new house with my family.
I hope my story helps a few people and please remember, do not lose hope. You can do it just like I did.