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Get Married A Month After Practicing The Magic!
Submitted by: Lingling Yu
ChinaBanker working in Hungary.
I met the love of my life accidentally while working in Europe. He is my colleague. He has everything that I wanted, he is extremely funny, having great sense of humor, really good at sports, super confident and assertive. He has a great sense of responsibility for family and friends. He is a great dreamer. I loved him very much even though there were loads of other voices telling me that he was not suitable for me. My family and many of my friends told me to let him go and there will be the next one and next one. I trusted the Universe and I let him go, and I knew that the Universe would deliver the most suitable person to me.
I was devastated for 3 months and I tried a lot things to get him back because I was worried and fearful. Then one day I realized that if I was worried then I did not really believe that he loved me, but he did. If I look at the pictures, and all those time we spent together, he indeed loved me so much. I was so lucky to experience this kind of deep connection. Words can’t really express my feeling when I realized that he loved me so much, that he was always there for me.
I changed my attitude. I’m appreciating everything happening in my life and believe that it’s the best arrangement at this moment for me. I would hang out with friends, get to know new people, grab new habits, meditate every day, leave half of my bed empty and would make breakfast for 2. I would be thinking about his parents and what to get them for Christmas.
I was doing all those things and the key was that it was so effortless. I was doing all those things as if we had been together for a long, long time. I felt satisfied and settled. I felt really amazing.
And then a miracle happened out of blue! He realized one day that I was the perfect match for him. He approached me and told me he could not imagine a life without me in the future. That he missed me so much that he could not believe he was back. He was so worried about marriage and commitment but now there he was and he asked, “Will you please marry me? ”
It was the best proposal and the only proposal I had heard of. I teared up. I had really mixed feelings, I would be lying if I tell you that I wasn’t a little worried. But my faith was strong, I knew that he was the one and that he would definitely come back to me. I was so surprised he came with the ring and flowers as I have always wanted. Yes I said to myself. I gave him a week to wait before I told him yes.
I’m so appreciating everything that I have in my life, my magical power, my ability to dream big, The Secret, just everything. Thank you, thank you, thank you!