For Those Who Are Looking For Answers
This is a story about someone who have been practicing LOA for years and encountered difficulties on her way.
I have so much faith in the LOA that I never give up. But I like many others found that The Secret did not seem to work for me magically and consistently. And this is my experience about how I found my problem and gradually changed my habits and belief, for those who are desperate like I once was and looking for answers.
I feel strong emotions when it comes to things that I really want. So it is particularly easy for me to become impatient about not manifested desires. Over the years I tried everything from meditation to visualization and had very little success. Then I started to read all kinds of books that I learn from The Secret movie.
Gradually I realize my doubt and impatience is the biggest problem. And all the teachers I came across constantly telling people to be easy about this.
So I decided to change my thinking habit. This is hard to change my behavior but I know so well that I can not achieve things with a mindset like this.
I gave up setting goals everyday and let joy be my biggest and only goal.
And that is when the magic started working. Funny because before that I tried twice as hard and spend much more time on visualization and my gratitude dairy.
People I like start to come into my life and they become my new friends. People I have problems with just disappear. I get texts from people who offer to help me in all kinds of things. I get invited to different kinds of events which are not the kind of things I usually have a chance to go to and opportunities are showing themselves to me.
Things I really want start to happen. Major stuff like money and relationship does not change much though. It wasn’t a surprise for me. Things that I care less about come easily. And if I can be more light minded about everything else, I can allow the magic to happen again.
So now I apply The Secret with a whole different mindset. I allow myself to be more patient and happy and I changed the habit of setting really big goals and getting anxious about it. My life in general improved and changed. I started to get the hang of this. I learnt that visualization, as a lot of people said, is about “feeling”. And when I really focus on “when I get it and feel excited about it” kind of feeling, instead of “Ok, I have it and I have it now”, the joy I can not describe it with words.
And I know this joy even before the manifestation happens is what life is about.
So I pat myself on the back if I can just feel it.
Be easy about this. And search for answers. You will be better at this little by little.