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Finally made the break…
Submitted by: Jo F
Lancashire UKI am a 32 year old mother of one. I discovered The Secret after my sister acquired a copy. What I find really strange is that up until that day I had never heard anything about it and now I am always meeting new people who are really into it.
For the past 3 1/2 years I have been in an on off relationship with an older man who I thought I really loved. He lived a couple of hours drive away from me and our relationship was never regular mainly due to his fear of commitment. For every high I had there was always a huge low as he found it very easy to keep him-self removed from the situation. We had a great time when we were together but as soon as we parted he simply shut the door until next time, when ever that would be.
To cut a long story short I had tried to end this relationship on a number of occasions but always gave in and contacted him again or out of the blue he would contact me and I would give in and come running back. I knew this relationship was over but I just couldn’t get over making that last final break.
The last time I saw him was in July and then he did his usual shut the door on me. When he failed to acknowledge my birthday in Sept I asked him to grant me a birthday wish. I guessed he would think that my wish would be for us to be together but that night before I went to bed I asked the Universe to help me cut the ties finally, once and for all.
The next morning I got up and started browsing the net for some sort of self help break up guide as I’d done on many occasions before and I couldn’t believe it when within 10 minutes I had found a downloadable e-book about coping with break ups but was written in a way that is exactly at the point I am at with my spiritual self. I had never seen this book before and it wasn’t new. I was compelled to read this book in a day and within the first chapter I cried like a baby. I released not only this relationship but past relationships that I had been carrying around with me. I made a load of notes around emotional things I could work on and the next day when I referred to them, they had all been healed and didn’t seem important anymore except for one. That was the hurt of feeling like I had been abandoned by my Mum when I was 15. Although our relationship is great now I have never been able to cry over this or let it go and finally I did.
It is now 8 weeks since I last contacted this man and although thats not really that long it is the first time in 3 1/2 years that I haven’t had one compulsion to contact him. He’s not the first thought on my mind in the morning anymore. This is fantastic for me as I really couldn’t see an end to what was becoming an emotional nightmare. The Universe gave me exactly what I needed to move forward.