The Official Website of The Secret The Official Website of The Secret
  • Explore
    • The Greatest Secret
    • Masterclass
    • Blog
    • Stories
    • Tell Us Your Story
    • Our Videos
  • Rhonda TV
    • Rhonda Talks
    • Rhonda Live
    • Ask Rhonda
  • About
    • Our Mission
    • Rhonda Byrne’s Biography
    • Creative Team
    • History of The Secret
  • Products
    • All Products
    • Apps
    • Audiobooks
    • Books
    • E-Books
    • Films
    • Masterclass
    • World Languages
  • Films
    • The Secret Documentary
    • The Secret: Dare to Dream
  • Gifts for You
    • The Secret Super App
    • The Secret Scrolls
    • Memory Game
    • The Magic Check
    • The Secret Check
    • The Science of Getting Rich E-Book
  • Translate
    • English
    • Español
    • Français
    • Dutch
    • Italiano
    • Russian
    • German
    • Portuguese
    • Swedish
    • More Languages
Close
  • Explore
    • The Greatest Secret
    • Masterclass
    • Blog
    • Stories
    • Tell Us Your Story
    • Our Videos
  • Rhonda TV
    • Rhonda Talks
    • Rhonda Live
    • Ask Rhonda
  • About
    • Our Mission
    • Rhonda Byrne’s Biography
    • Creative Team
    • History of The Secret
  • Products
    • All Products
    • Apps
    • Audiobooks
    • Books
    • E-Books
    • Films
    • Masterclass
    • World Languages
  • Films
    • The Secret Documentary
    • The Secret: Dare to Dream
  • Gifts for You
    • The Secret Super App
    • The Secret Scrolls
    • Memory Game
    • The Magic Check
    • The Secret Check
    • The Science of Getting Rich E-Book
  • Translate
    • English
    • Español
    • Français
    • Dutch
    • Italiano
    • Russian
    • German
    • Portuguese
    • Swedish
    • More Languages

Search Topics

Ex Came Back.

Submitted by: kittu

India

Magical girl spreading happiness and joy and fulfilling her dreams through The Secret.

I was a kind of demure natured girl and I often had great difficulty with what was going on in my heart. I got into a relationship with a guy who was just like I had imagined my dream guy to be like. But soon I started to give in to my insecurities and I was thinking negative thoughts about the relationship all day. I did not realize that doing so could manifest my thoughts into reality.

A month later I got to know that he was already in a relationship with another girl! I was broken hearted as hell. My boyfriend refused to break up with either one of us and pleaded with me to stay in the relationship. I was thinking it was pure love so I stayed but I was going against my own self-love. Then things started to go downhill and got worse. I was getting insulted and feeling humiliated but I refused to call off the relationship. I was so much in love with him that I forgot about my own self love and self respect.

Then one day when I got insulted by his girlfriend, I felt that I had enough and me and my boyfriend decided to call our relationship off. That was so difficult for me, and a month later I had started to beg him to come back to me.

That was when my friend told me about The Secret book. I read it and related every one of my situations with what my previous thoughts had been. I wanted to let him go but I was so into him that I would still think of him every single day. I started to date several other guys to forget about him but nothing happened. That was when I decided that I would give The Secret a try.

I made gratitude my way of life and I focused on giving my ex gratitude for being with me and loving me. On days that I could not find anything to feel grateful for about him, I would just feel gratitude for what I wanted him to be. I would do this whenever I would start to think about our breakup. When I would remember him, I would just say that I loved him. Looking at his pictures and talking to him as I looked into his eyes was my favorite part of the day. I would feel like I was actually talking to him. Days passed by and nothing happened as I was obviously struggling to let go.

Then I started to date a guy who was very nice and I started having emotions for him. I still wanted my ex to come back but this time I was not feeling desperate.

And guess what?!

My ex called me, begging me to forgive him! He told me that not a single day had gone by that he didn’t think of me and that he was a changed man now. He said that he was doing everything that I had wanted him to do and he committed to me. I finally got a commitment after 2 years of being in the relationship, only when I realized my own self worth. He also started recognizing and respecting my place in his life.

However, the sad part is that I no longer want to be with him. My new guy is a person that I really want to be with. My ex is now asking me to come back and is crying for me but now I will never settle for anything less than I deserve.

If I can do it, you can definitely do it too.

Tweet
Share
Share
Pin
FaithLoveLetting GoRelationshipsGratitude
← More Stories

Search Topics

Have a Story to Share?

Submit your story →

What Do You Want?

  • To Be Happy1
  • Better Relationships2
  • Success in Life3
  • More Money4
  • Better Health5
  • The Secret for Teens6
  • The Secret for Kids7
To Be Happy1
Better Relationships2
Success in Life3
More Money4
Better Health5
The Secret for Teens6
The Secret for Kids7

The Magic

The easiest way to lasting happiness is to practice gratitude.

Find the 28 most powerful gratitude practices in The Magic!

Find The Magic in these formats:

BooksE-BooksWorld Languages

Love everything around you, and the love MUST come back to you!

The Power reveals the greatest force in the universe, and exactly how to use it - for better relationships and for everything you could ever want.

Find The Power in these formats:

BooksE-BooksAudioBooksCDWorld Languages

Whatever dream you dream, KNOW that the Universe wants you to succeed.

Hero lights the way for your dream - step-by-step through every challenge, hurdle, or set back - until it is realized.
Find Hero in these formats:

BooksE-BooksAudioBooksCDWorld Languages

The Secret Money App

The simple secret to having more money is believing you are already wealthy!

Every single time you use The Secret to Money App you are thinking and acting like you are wealthy NOW.

Explore The Secret to Money App, available on:

Google PlayThe App StoreWorld Languages

Great health comes from having great thoughts.

The Secret Daily Teachings provides a simple, inspiring way to keep your thoughts and feelings positive every single day of the year.
The Secret Daily Teachings is available as an app and book in these formats:

BooksAPPE-BooksTear Sheet
World Languages

Live an extraordinary life and awaken your dreams!

The Secret to Teen Power explores the Law of Attraction from a teenager’s point of view.

Find The Secret to Teen Power in these formats:

BooksE-BooksAudioBooksCDWorld Languages

Imagination is the creative force of the Universe!

The Power of Henry’s Imagination is a picture story book exploring one of The Secret principles: visualization.

Find The Power of Henry’s Imagination in these formats:

BooksE-BooksWorld Languages

Look Up Stories by theme

  • Art
  • Awareness
  • Business
  • Education
  • Environment
  • Faith
  • Family
  • Feel Good
  • Finances
  • Friends
  • Future
  • Giving
  • Goals
  • Gratitude
  • Health
  • Inner
  • Inspiration
  • Job
  • Letting Go
  • Life
  • Love
  • Music
  • Other
  • Pets
  • Relationships
Be Here Now and you will be happy The Secret
  • Prev
  • Next

Our Products

  • Books
  • Audiobooks
  • E-Books
  • Films
  • Apps

Help Resources

  • The Secret Store
  • The Secret Stories
  • The Secret Blog
  • FAQ
  • World Languages
  • Customer Privacy Policy

Our Company

  • Contact Us
  • Our Mission
  • Rhonda Byrne’s Biography
  • History of The Secret
  • The Creative Team
  • Media

Search

Connect With Us

The Secret at Weibo

© Copyright 2021 The Secret. All rights reserved.
Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | No Spam Policy | Site Credit