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Effortless Relationships.
Submitted by: Positive Energy
EuropeI'm a new soul. I came to this strange world hoping I could learn a bit about how to give and take.
First of all I would like to thank Rhonda and her team of The Secret for totally transforming our lives. I am also grateful to the Universe for it’s guidance.
I decided to share a story with The Secret fans after having seen a guy who I liked many years ago. It was the first time I liked a boy and I tried to talk to him. To make a long story short, I asked my cousin for her help, as she was more experienced, and she stole him despite going out with 8 more boys during this period. She is such a competitive person and always wanted to prove that she was very good looking, since she had the experience of other people thinking that she was uglier than me since we were children. I was devastated.
My next relationships were bad because I kept recalling in my mind that bad experience. The hardest thing was that the guy was making fun of me. At the same time my all my peers at that time thought that I was the strange one and that he was such a good person. From that past experience I had concluded that love is a very difficult thing. Then after reading The Secret I trying hard to change this by applying The Secret.
One day I realized something very important about my relationships. Mine never worked because I was falling in love with people that actually hated me. The did not like me at all. I was always trying to persuade them that I was good enough. I was applying law of attraction in a negative way. Every day I was visualizing because I wanted to change their mind rather than mine. So visualization was just a “must”. Every time I would start getting on well with them I felt that they would go away again, because I had tried hard to get them. So I was anxious. I knew that this would not change because the law of attraction is supposed to make me feel good. And this is how it was.
So, I gave a guy who was deeply in love with me a chance and everything now is magic around me. I am happier than ever!
To sum up, the only way to built love is to have feelings of love. But by choosing people who hate you and make you feel bad, you have to struggle to turn it into love. And love is not about struggling, it is an effortless way to live.