This is the third success story that I am writing on this site and I am very glad that both of my previous stories got published here.
I have known about The Secret for almost 4 years now but somewhere and somehow, I had lost the essence of it with the passage of time. Then things started falling apart little by little.
I had been in a relationship with this amazing man for more than 5 years and I always thought about telling my parents about him once we both get settled down. But, as they say, not all things go as planned and I had to tell my parents about him right before starting my post-graduation because of some turn of events. Since my boyfriend and I belong to different casts, my parents didn’t even ask his name and asked me to forget about him right away. They literally gave me a week’s notice to forget about him. Now, this was one part of the story that happened to me. He, on the other hand, was already facing the same issue with his family, and not just that, his parents were forcing him to marry someone else and they were not even letting him take the job that was offered to him, just so that he would do everything they say.
I started applying the law of attraction again, but this time I reread The Secret so I could recall everything that I forgot about. I started visualizing that our parents had accepted our relationship and we were settled in the same city. I would write everything about it in my journal as if everything that I had asked for had already been manifested. I did this for about 15 days.
Then suddenly, my boyfriend broke up with me, saying that it was becoming very difficult for him to handle everything that was going on with his family and mine, and it was better for us to stop seeing each other.
At first, I was hurt but then just after half an hour, I thought that it was okay. It did not matter what happens because I had already asked the Universe for what I wanted and I was going to get that, no matter what! This break up was nothing but a way to aid me to only think positively.
The next day I thought that maybe it’s time for me to let all of this go. I thought that I had done my part by asking and believing and visualizing. Now it was time for the Universe to take over and do its part.
Now, this is the part that had always been difficult for me. So I browsed the net about ‘letting go’ and saw many videos on YouTube to get the simple crux of what actually letting go means. This is what I concluded from my little research:
For some people, it is easy to manifest small things such as a cup of coffee, but when it comes to bigger things like attracting a life partner or a particular job or lottery, manifestation becomes harder. This is mainly because we are not attached to that cup of coffee but we are deeply attached to a particular person or a job and thus the anxiety attached to the ‘when and how’ of that manifestation creates resistance. That pushes our manifestation further away and so the “letting go” part becomes harder. Letting go here doesn’t mean that we have to forget about our desire but we should detach ourselves from that desire. That means we should stop thinking that our life would be over if that person or thing doesn’t come into our lives. We should be able to accept other outcomes and possibilities too.
I didn’t stop thinking about my future with my boyfriend. I would do it daily at night, right before falling asleep. However, I would go on to do other things during the daytime. I wouldn’t let myself get carried away with just one thought for the entire day. The trick is to shift your focus onto some other thing. I would tell the Universe that I know what I want is going to manifest at the right time and in the most magical way possible. I would write in my gratitude journal daily, thanking the Universe for my amazing parents who have accepted my boyfriend and my in-laws who have accepted me.
After reading this long story, you won’t be surprised to know that I manifested my desire and I am extremely grateful that I have everything that I wished for. Our parents have accepted us with so much ease that it is like they were never against our relationship.
Thank you for reading my long story and I hope I could help at least one person who is struggling with the letting go part. Thank you so much Rhonda for sharing this gem with us. Thank you so much, Universe for all of my manifestations.
Thank you! thank you! thank you!