My story is one of progress. For about 4 weeks I conciously made every effort to think only positively. Not imagining big dreams, but eradicating negativity by filling every space in my body and soul with positive thoughts.

It was very strange! I noticed the negativity in others so clearly and immediately thanked myself for seeing it and ignoring it. At times, people have seemed irritated by my refusal to enjoy a good gossip and judgemental session, but my future depended on me not going down that road anymore. Then I had a breakthrough.

Very casually I was telling my partner that I loved cheese and pickle sandwiches, mmm, Branston pickle. Within two hours, my ex husband knocked on my door and asked if wanted some cheese and pickle sandwiches as the cricket team were rained off and there were about 50 spare!!

Now, for all of you out there new to this, think about what I did. I simply gave love in my mind for a sandwich and it appeared. I didnt feel jealous that I didnt have one, or fear that I would never have one again, or impatient that I wanted it now, I just gave love for one.

Since then, I have had so many things given to me that I have wanted and I take it as a sign that I’m on track. All I do every night before I go to bed, is write a thank you list. All I do each day is try to feel happy and uplifted for what I have now. The house on the Isle of Wight that I want will be mine, because I love it. Will let you know when I’m in.

So my message is this, be grateful and be loving, and instead of one sandwich, get 50 courtesy of the loving universe!!