Change your attitude and change your life!!
Well, first of all I want to say thank you to everyone who writes their stories, they’ve given me strength when I’ve needed it, and most of all, faith!
Some months ago I was feeling miserable, lost, I didn’t like my job, I felt like a loser because I still depended on my parents and the economical situation was hard. I’ve had so many dreams that at the time seemed so far away! But most of all, I felt terrible about love. I’d just broken up with my ex boyfriend whom I lived with and had moved back with my parents. The whole year I was in that relationship I felt insecure, I think I wanted a boyfriend and didn’t really look for the qualities I needed in one, but for someone to be with. He was really messed up, he didn’t get me, I didn’t get him, I was sick, I was miserable and every single day I felt insecure with him. I did love him in a way, but it was not healthy.
I had read The Secret before, but till then, had never really applied its teachings. I started to focus on what I wanted. At work, I would be thankful for it, and I would spend hours reading the stories on the website and working hard on myself to overcome the pain.
Two years ago I had met a really great guy with whom I felt a connection I never had with anyone else, however, he lived far away and we lost contact. His best friend started dating a close friend of mine and she would tell me about how good he seemed for me. I sent him a casual email just to say hello, and two months later he came to visit me and I had the best time of my life!! I’m so very grateful for my boyfriend, I knew from that day two years ago he was what I wanted, but didn’t really see it till now. He makes me very happy, we have a very open relationship and we trust each other from our hearts!!
I quit my job and I’m working really hard to finish my degree in a year or so, so we can start our own business!! I also found an apartment and live with a very nice roommate in a very convenient part of the city. I tell a very close friend who is going through a tough time, time is relative. It could take less than a month for you to be the happiest person on earth!! I am, and I am grateful!!