Broken Relationship Has Been Totally Fixed
Like a lot of people, I had read The Secret a long time ago, but only occasionally applied it to my life.
3 weeks ago my relationship broke down, things were not going well, I realize now this was mainly due to me. I had serious trust issues after being hurt before and was constantly doubting my partners motives. I was seeing the worst in everything he did and finally we broke up. This was unlike any break up we had before and as far as I was concerned this time was for good. I spent some time thinking about how negative I had been and remembered The Secret and what it had said about attracting bad as well as good.
I realized it was me who had attracted all those bad things. I made a decision to turn things around. That night, instead of going to bed angry, I said “goodnight ___, I love you” like I had always previously done. The next day I made a vision board, using pictures of what I hoped our future would be like. It sounds crazy I know, considering we weren’t together, but I thought id give it a go. I also wrote a list of all the things I was thankful for in our relationship, all the things I loved about him and finished by saying “I am thankful that it’s all so simple now”.
The following night, completely out of the blue, I received a phone call from my ex. He said he was sorry and still loved and missed me. We spoke again the following day and agreed to meet up. Within minutes of meeting up we were back together.
We are SO happy together now.
I’ve made a conscious decision not to let stupid things get me down. I have become a much more positive person and my relationship has benefited so much from this.
I wanted to share my story for any other heartbroken people out there to give them hope and let them know that it’s you who controls your future, even when you think it’s hopeless, don’t give up on what you really want.