From A Broken Heart To The Guy Of My Dreams.
Hello. First of all I’d love to thank the entire team of The Secret for inspiring millions to practise love and gratitude. The world is a better place because of you.
My story began with a breakup. I had been seeing this guy for around a year and a half and literally out of the blue he broke up with me. I was devastated and went to great lengths to try to make him give me another chance when I didn’t even know what the problem was. It was as if we were never together, he couldn’t care less. I was broken for a while but then decided to use The Secret to help win him back. I thought I couldn’t do without him. What I didn’t realise was that I was putting that out into the Universe and so the results could never be positive.
I started giving out energy for a loving relationship and to have him back into my life. It was really difficult at first as I was extremely used to having him around. I knew thought that being miserable was not the way I was going to get what I wanted, so I kept on relying on The Secret and these stories to give me strength to remain positive. For around a year, I kept giving positive affirmations and keeping a happy state of mind. However, he didn’t come back to me. We were to a point where we were friends again but he did not want to be together. There were times I broke down but soon I began to realise how different we were and noticed that there were a lot of things I wanted from a relationship that didn’t happen because we just had completely different priorities. Yet, I kept my belief and gave love to the idea of being in love. I failed numerous times when doubt and self pity caught up with me. But here’s where the knowledge of The Secret helps, I kept getting back up. It helps you to stay on track and realise the value of your thoughts and emotions
Meanwhile I grew closer to an old friend. We went on long walks and talked all day and it so happened that we grew to fall for each other. Today, I’m dating him and it’s the best relationship I’ve ever had. I have everything I could ask for and we are crazy for each other. I couldn’t believe how this person, somebody I’m extremely comfortable with, could have so much love to give and I’m confident that we have a long way to go. It’s been 6 months and they have really been the best months of my life. He puts so much effort into making me happy, it’s magical what we share.
I could go on and on about what a wonderful person he is and how beautiful it is with him but that’s not what this story is about. It’s about how The Secret doesn’t really give you what you want, it gives you what you need. I realised that I wanted love and companionship and someone who’d really love and care about me and that’s what I put my energy into. So the Universe did not bring me my ex back, because I deserved more. Now that I look back, I realise how there were problems all along, I just didn’t see it. The Universe brought me what I really wanted, what in fact, I didn’t even know I really wanted, and I can not thank it enough.
Trust the Universe, it has a plan for you. Just keep giving love and energy to what inspires you and makes you happy and truly the Universe will give you so much more than you think you deserve.