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Believe, just believe!!!
Submitted by: Aini
SydneyI'm a very blessed dreamer, achiever, daughter, sister, girlfriend (soon to be wife hopefully!), best friend, believer.
I attracted The Secret book as a birthday gift 3 years ago, I asked a good friend if she had a copy and she gave me one as a present! I had heard a little bit about the book but I was so amazed after finished reading it. I had been gloomy for many months after my boyfriend broke up with me. Soon afte,r I started shifting my thinking and felt much better for the first time. Initially, I couldnât believe that I can get whatever I want just by wanting them. But hey if I really CAN get what I want, then I wanted my boyfriend back!
Soon, I created a vision book so I could carry it with me anywhere. I put our pictures, the job that I wanted, and other things. I would be flipping the pages and feeling so happy, around this time I started believing in myself. When I was a kid, I used to visualised myself getting into all the schools that I wanted and I really did get accepted in those schools! I also knew I would be living in a western country and here I am now in Sydney. Well, so all this time Iâve been using The Secret! If it worked before, of course it was going to work this time, especially now I understand about The Secret.
Within weeks, results were shown. I saw his dad at the train station. I never saw any of his family member after we broke up!! I took my visualisation further by pretending that I texted him everyday, just like we used to do. I bought a spare toothbrush for him and slept on my side of the bed. I was very happy also at work and started attracting my dream job! Finally, after a couple of months, I texted him thinking ânothing to loseâ. I was so surprised when I saw his reply!! We went on dates and got back together almost immediately. Bonus: I got the job and new apartment that I really wanted as well!! Life was soooooo good!
Our relationship was fantastic. We went to many wonderful places together, we talked about our future, and even recently moved in together! I managed to get a beautiful apartment for us using The Secret too. However, as time passed by, I went back to my negative state. I was never grateful for whatever my boyfriend did for us, I kept complaining and even questioning his love for me. In my eyes, he was always wrong and I tried to change him. Same thing happened at work. I was very stressed with my âdreamâ job that I quit after 3 months only. I got another job but apparently it wasnât good enough for me that I always talked down about it whenever I had the chance.
No surprise, God took them away from me. I was shock at first, I had immersed myself into our relationship that it has defined who I was. I was my boyfriendâs girlfriend. Sitting down alone in our living room, I realised that I had lost myself, not my boyfriend. I was so into being a girlfriend that I forgot about being me. A day after he left our place, I watched The Secret dvd and opened The Power book, that he gave for my birthday. A few days after, I bought The Magic. How embarrassed I was after I read both books and watched the dvd again. I had attracted these all with my lack of gratitudeâ¦
Iâm actually thankful that my boyfriend broke up with me again. Of course itâs not the ideal situation, but this slap really opened my eyes so wide and teaches me a lot. I found myself again, fell in love with myself again, and felt truly happy from my heart. I made peace with God also, now I pray because I WANT TO and not because I have to. To me, the universe is God. I finally understand that God wants us to be happy and only to be happy. All of the successes and greatness are provided for us, weâre the ones who create barriers for ourselves. The Secret-Power-Magic set my heart free⦠I cannot describe how amazing it feels to choose to be happy, to find it within ourselves. In my world, the words âMUSTâ and âSHOULDâ have vanished. I do everything by choice and it makes me so happy because I choose with my heart!
Iâve been putting myself in a very stubborn state of believing. Bob Proctorâs words keep playing in my head âyou donât need to know how, they way will be shown to you.â I finally found the job that I really want and will go for the interview next week!! I can see myself working there already 🙂
With the boyfriend situation, I always know heâs the only one that I want. I can only picture my future with him. Heâs such a wonderful man, how could I be so blind.. He loves me so much and he accepts me for who I am. I know and I truly believe that weâre meant to grow old together.
Little by little, he opened his heart again. The first time around, I didnât see him for a year but this time he kept contact with me and we even sat down to talk 3 times within a month. I know I attracted this! I know, no matter what, heâs coming back to me. Heâs already on his way back to me 🙂
Iâm so grateful that I discovered this great knowledge. Thank you from the deepest part of my heart, Rhonda and all The Secret teachers. You have taught us the key to an abundant life. Iâve even crossed off 3 of this year’s resolutions and itâs only January!! I know that all my dreams are coming true, like always 🙂
Donât listen to others, youâre the only one who decide whether you can do it or not. Once you believe that you can, God/The Universe is always there to provide for you and never fails. Have the faith and hold on strongly to it. Focus on your inner strength, anything is possible!! YOU CAN DO IT!!!