Believe in yourself first
I will try to keep this simple. I have written here in the past and enjoy reading everyone’s stories. My story (cliff note version): I was in love with this amazing guy until one day he cheated on me with an ex of his. To this day he won’t admit it, but I saw it with my own two eyes. He came back to me months after this happened, telling me how much he loves me and that I am the only one for him. I loved him and wanted to be with him so decided to give him a shot.
It was very rocky at the beginning because I didn’t trust him. After proving himself to me, I still had worries, but after we had one huge fight I knew what the problem was – it was that I was insecure in myself, and when you are insecure with yourself nothing else could ever be right. So I started slowly working on myself, and my relationship with my boyfriend got better.
We will be together two years now, and although rocky for the first six months, we are stronger than ever. I don’t doubt his love for me, BUT, most importantly, I don’t doubt myself. I guess we both needed to grow up in different ways, and we now have a great, COMMITTED relationship, and most importantly we are stronger than ever.
Thank you to Rhonda and The Secret team. When you believe, you can achieve.