Believe And Never Give Up
My story starts in the month of September 2012. I had an excellent job, health, friends, money and above all the most beautiful and loving partner in my life. We were in a relationship for more than 5 years and were planning to get married by 2014. Even our parents had met and our respective families were very excited about our relationship.
But during this time particularly I started getting ungrateful for the blessings I had in life and things started to deteriorate. My thinking changed and to make myself popular I circulated false stories about me in our mutual friends circle. Ungratefulness leads to overconfidence and when you are overconfident you are on the sure path to failure. What I did not realize that this short term fame was about to cause long term impact in my life, and it did.
I saw a contrasting change in my fiances behavior towards me in the coming months and that led to the fear of losing her even more. As I was unsure what lead to this, I kept on thinking negative theories in my head. As it The Secret says, the universe is always responding to your thoughts, so it did.
Finally a day came in the month of March 2013 my world collapsed in front of my eyes. After a series of fights and misunderstandings my lovely relationship of more than 5 years was ending. I was unable to believe that something like this is possible and is happening to me. In situations like these you keep blaming the other person and God, so did I. I lost 16 kgs, could not eat or sleep and even lost my wonderful job due to the mental stress I was going through.
One day while surfing the net I came across The Secret video on YouTube. I cried and wept like a child while watching it as it made it absolutely clear to me that my own negative thoughts and ungratefulness has led me to such a situation in life.
I watched the video again and again. The first thing that I learned from The Secret was to forgive myself and others for what has happened, and choose to live happy. I even bought the book The Secret and read it in one go. I made my vision board and wrote down a date by when I wanted to have my dream job and I started visualizing it. As taught in the book I also started writing my gratitude journal daily for even the smallest of the things in life.
Within a few days of implementing these practices I started getting interview calls from different places and exactly by the date I had written down to my surprise I received 8 job offer letters in my hand. This gave me the strength and belief that I can even restore my relationship.
I came to this website and started reading the success stories of people who have been able to restore their relationships with the power of belief. Especially the story of Joy from Kenya helped me a lot. Whenever I used to get anxious and depressed I used to read it and get charged up.
My best decision was to buy the book The Magic in which Rhonda has given 28 days of Magic Practices to heal your relationship. I did all of those and tried to be great full for everything in my life as wholeheartedly as possible. What it taught me was also to be patient as even after 28 days as mentioned in the book nothing much happened, but I kept on saying to myself that I cannot lose hope and the universe is definitely giving me what I have asked for.
And yes, today Universe answered my call. My fiance called me after 7 months and said the exact words that I had written down, that she wanted to meet me for a coffee. To my surprise even the time she mentioned and the place where all the same. Today I am meeting her after a long time. I feel as if I am the most blessed man on this planet. The universe brought my love back to me. I have now even written down my wedding date in 2014 and I am sure that I will be marrying my love on the same day with all your blessings.
To those who are reading my story I just want to tell you that never ever give up. Have patience and believe with all your heart. I know you will be anxious and there would be days when you might be questioning yourself. But don’t wander from the path you have chosen. Be grateful and love yourself. Your marriages will be restored, your relationships will be healed you will get everything you want. I have received what I had asked for. Ask Believe and then let it go. The universe is always at your side.
A big thanks to Rhonda and her team and to all those who have posted their stories.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!