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I Attracted My Perfect Husband.
Submitted by: Jackie
South AfricaI'm a woman in my early 30s who has been using The Secret for almost 7 years now. I'm living the life of my dreams.
I came across The Secret in 2006 but only started really applying the teachings consistently in 2012. I managed to manifest some wonderful things including 3 of my all expenses paid trips, dream trips, 2 of which I wrote about here. I was in a relationship and wanted so badly to get married to my boyfriend. I applied all of The Secret teachings and prayed about it so much. I read stories here about people who had attracted their dream proposals from their boyfriends. After 5 years in the relationship I realised that maybe it wasn’t happening for me because it wasn’t what I really wanted or needed. Maybe he wasn’t the right man for me. Although I loved him, I had some concerns about our future together. I prayed one day that if he wasn’t the right man for me then I wanted the relationship to end so that I could find my soulmate who could give me all the things I had been wanting to manifest.
The next day my boyfriend broke up with me. I was upset but at the same time I knew it was meant to be and I was positive that I could now manifest my soulmate.
After a few months of getting to know myself again, having fun and enjoying my single life, I was ready to start manifesting my future husband. I made sure to include room for him so I never got too used to the ‘single life’. I wrote a list of all the attributes I wanted him to have as well as all the things I wanted us to do in our relationship. I didn’t include physical things like his hair, skin or eye colour, but rather personality traits I wanted him to have. I didn’t have a picture of what he would look like but I kept an open mind and focussed more on how he would make me feel. I decided to join a dating site but after searching through the men I felt discouraged as none of them appealed to me. A few days later I decided to check my messages and found a message from a man I hadn’t seen on the site before. Somehow he had found my profile and wrote me a message. Something about his message stood out to me and I decided to reply. After chatting for a while I gave him my number and a few days later he called me to ask me out. The thing that first attracted me to him was his old-fashioned manners, something I had put on my list but hadn’t come across in any of the men I had met before.
Long story short, we were engaged in less than a year and are now happily married. My life with him has been more than I could ever have dreamed of. He treats me better than I ever imagined anyone ever could. He possesses every attribute that was on my list and we have done everything I wanted to do in our relationship and more. We have travelled the world together and every day with him is an adventure. With him I have travelled everywhere on my bucket list and to more places that I never dreamed of. I am living in my dream home, in my dream area, with my dream man and thanks to his encouragement I am finally studying towards a qualification I have wanted to achieve for over a decade and am doing really well.
For anyone who ever doubts the power of The Secret, just remember two things. Firstly, you need to be patient and have faith. Secondly, always remember that the Universe knows what is best for you, even if you can’t see it at this moment. For every door that closes there is something better around the corner. Trust, ask, believe and receive. Thank you.