Attracted An Ex And A New Love!
I got introduced to The Secret last spring when I had broken up with my boyfriend. The Secret had been recommended to me before that as well, but I didn’t think too highly of it. Last spring, however, I was beyond desperate. I had been in a very complicated relationship with my so called boyfriend for a couple of years. We weren’t really lovers but we were very, very close. Our attraction towards each other was crazy. We simply couldn’t be without talking or seeing each other. However, it was not a sexual attraction and that made things tricky. Of course, a close relationship like this causes problems since neither one of us was really available for anybody else.
So we decided to give a romantic relationship a try. It wasn’t easy. My boyfriend dumped me several times, although he always came back. At least until our final break up last April. After that, I was devastated. Not only did I lose all my hopes and dreams regarding our future together, but I lost the most important person in my life. I heard nothing from him, he didn’t want to talk to me at all.
After crying my eyes off for a week, I decided it was time to do something else. I bought The Secret and The Magic and started practicing them. I visited this site and read encouraging stories and promised to come back someday and write a story of my own. I understood, however, that what I really needed to do was to let it go. But it was a lot easier said than done. I gave myself deadlines when I wished my boyfriend would come back. All of them passed with no sign of him. I wasn’t really that surprised because deep down I knew I hadn’t let it go.
Then came summer and I already felt a little better, thanks to the great practices in The Magic. I was also quite excited about my boating trip in July. When I stepped into the harbor for our departure, I suddenly felt very happy and light. I felt like everything would be OK, whether my boyfriend came back or not. At that moment I realized that I had finally let him go. I, of course, still wished he would come back since I was certain he is my twin flame but I knew I would be fine either way. I trusted the Universe.
And guess what happened?! The very next day, I met another guy. He was practically perfect in every way. I felt an instant connection with him immediately, much like with my ex boyfriend. He was and still is the most amazing guy I have ever met. I started to think that maybe I was wrong about my ex. I thanked the Universe for giving me this amazing person and this amazing new relationship. I was beyond happy.
Then 2 months later, my ex contacted me. He said that he had evolved, that he was now able to commit, and did not want to lose his soulmate and the love of his life. We have been talking for a couple of months now. We talk about everything, our past, our problems, his problems and mine, my new relationship, and different possible future scenarios. I’ve also been very open about this to my new boyfriend. I am not sure what will happen here. However, I am positive that the Universe will show me the right way and things will end up as they are meant to be.
Thank you to the Universe and thank you to Rhonda! Thank you to everyone who wrote their stories here. If you are reading this and are in a similar situation as I was 6 months ago, I want to tell you to not give up. Be patient and trust the Universe. Anything can happen and what happens maybe even more amazing than you ever wished for.