Assistant that did not go through
So, this is how I came to understand The Secret and how it works.
As a retail manager I go through hardships with hiring the right people. This has ALWAYS been by challenge. I had started with a new company and I needed to find an assitant as fast as I could. After conducting many interveiws we found a candidate that at first seemed like the most AMAZING choice. She had a lot of self esteem problems and often ignored customers, so we had to let her go.
I was so discouraged and so down about the whole ordeal that I became a bit bitter. After that rough patch I found and hired what seemed to be the most AMAzInG assistant and sure enough after one week found out she was pregant and had to leave work.
I was so depressed! I mean I was so negative and so much in my life at that moment spiraled out of control.
So then I took a different route…. I always wanted to hire this one FABULOuS girl and she declined my offer at the last minute because she was recently promoted within her company and wanted to try it out. I always went to visit her say hi, see how her new role was and never gave up!!!!
I told her when she regected my offer that I would get her one day to work for me !!! And thats what I did.
There was always an empty space on the schedule for an assistant and I always talked about her at work and sure enough she joined the company after five months.
Being patieni is key. And remember I only used The Secret after I wondered why she came back to me… LOA all the way!!!
Keep faith out there all you managers! Be patient and things will fall in place..