Ask, Believe, Let Go And Receive Magic!
I honestly can’t explain in words how happy I am to relate this story to you, my fingers are literally cold and shaking and my heart is thumping in utter excitement because The Secret worked for me! When The Secret came out for the first time I was a preteen and had no sense of general understanding of what The Secret might even be, as at that time, it was all about all these romance books. However I always wanted to find my soul mate and I always thought I would find someone perfect for me. Someone who would genuinely love me for who I was and be there by my side for the rest of my life. Guys have always come my way but they were never the right ones.
One night this particular guy I had a crush on asked me out on a date and I couldn’t believe that my dream was actually coming true. However the Universe decided he was not the one for me and this guy cancelled the date and told me that he was looking for a relationship with not much commitment. I was crushed but I always thought my soul mate is out there somewhere. So I stayed strong even though I didn’t know the proper concepts of the law of attraction. Funny enough, exactly two weeks later this guy’s friend, Nikolai, had taken his phone and started texting me. He eventually switched to his phone and we spoke to each other nonstop for the next two weeks.
Nikolai was the exact male version of me and it was so easy to relate to him. We hit it off and fell in love and shared many happy memories. I had finally found my soul mate. But then negativity came along and I started getting scared about losing him because it felt like he was too good to be true and my mindset was such that I believed that guys like this don’t exist. Also my mother didn’t like him due to cast differences but she didn’t know him like I did . Little did I know that I was bringing my worst fears into life and giving all my negativity so much energy that I myself was bringing it to life!
Soon he decided that he couldn’t have this relationship anymore. It left me so numb that I completely lost my appetite. I continued to lose weight like crazy. I felt I was no longer able to function on my own. I cried and begged him to come back putting my dignity down a sewer and throwing my self-respect away. Social media didn’t help and neither did talking to his friends because apparently he was moving on fine without me. That was shocking to me after having a beautiful relationship with someone who claimed to love me forever.
During this time I resolved to the internet and started going through spiritual healing and came across The Secret! I instantly fell in love with the movie and the books and reread them and watched it so many times. I constantly watched videos about the creative process and sooner than I knew, I had so much faith in the Universe. I became whole again and happy with myself. I believed that Nikolai still loved me with all his heart and I was a 100% certain that he would come back to me because we were meant to be together. I meditated a lot and visualized my relationship with him and manifested a future with him. We never really completely lost contact but whenever I would call him I realized that his response was faster than before and he was much nicer to me. However I kept wondering why we were still not back together. I must have been doing something wrong. I mean I sure did practice all the steps. I kept asking the Universe and believed that I was ready to receive and still I was not getting the results. And that’s when it hit me. I was trying to control and micro-manage the job of the Universe instead of letting it bring it my way.
So that day I decided to let go. By letting go I mean still keeping my wish in mind and giving gratitude to the Universe as if I already got what I wanted but letting go of all that doubt. Finally fully believing that the Universe will take care of me. That is when you are ready to receive because that’s when you have a 100% faith and belief.
Now you won’t believe it! Nikolai called me and told me that he was not doing good because he missed me and he felt like leaving me was a big mistake and he had no idea how to even apologize to me. He told me that he never stopped loving me and that he just wants to be with me for the rest of his life! These were the exact words that I had been manifesting! To top that off, my mom gave me her blessing to have an open relationship with him. I was so happy and so joyous because my Universe had answered my prayers and granted my wish. I felt so grateful and thankful. Now we have a beautiful relationship and he loves me so much! I have come to believe that good things can actually come true.
I just want to thank Rhonda Byrne for sharing The Secret with the world because this was the best thing that happened to me! Thank you, thank you, thank you so much! It truly is wonderful how the Universe responds to things when we allow it to take control. If this happened to me, it could happen to you. So just believe with all your heart and let the Universe take control. Then sit back, relax and watch The Magic happen!