All You Have To Do Is Let Go.
Thank you God and Universe for granting everyone a chance to live and achieve everything they desire. Thank you Rhonda for being the messenger of The Secret.
I discovered The Secret while I was at my lowest point in my life. My best friend and boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me and kept leading me on. I didn’t know how to be alone and was delirious with loneliness when he left me. I was molested at my new job and I felt I had ruined my boss’s family as I worked in a family-owned business and told her that her husband molested me and then I quit my job.
I saw on someone’s blog that there is such thing as The Secret. That what you think of will materialize, whether it was negative or positive. I was shocked! I 100% did not expect or think my boyfriend would ever cheat on me. I never thought I’d ever be sexually abused. I never expected any of these bad things to happen to me!
I read the book and watched the film. It all made sense to me.
The Secret was my ticket out of crying and thinking about my ex every day. Before I watched The Secret, I realized that almost daily, I was literally waking up and feeling absolutely gutted over my ex. During the day at uni I would act like a zombie, I would hear people and professors talk but I wouldn’t understand what they were saying because I would zone out and think of my ex. I would go home and cry over my ex. I would go to sleep after praying to God and asking him why has he forsaken me?
The Secret taught me a hundred important things, but most importantly at the time, it taught me that YOU CANNOT CONTROL OTHERS. YOU CAN ONLY CONTROL YOU.
You can only control your thoughts, feelings and actions, and these will bring everything you desire, period.
So I put it to the test.
I set goals to pass my uni subjects. To get my driver’s license. To get clear skin. To get my dream job.
I accepted the fact that I will always love my ex, but it is time to live FOR ME, and blocked him out completely. I erased him from my life. I did not talk about him, when I thought about him I would catch myself and think about something else. I focused on my goals. I heard he started dating someone else. Instead of hating him for moving on from me, I smiled and tried to be happy for them and not let it get to me. I went out with friends, I studied, I worked and saved money. I did activities that made me feel joy and distracted me from my terrible past.
My journal had daily entries of “I want a fresh start”. I didn’t ask for anything specific. All I knew is that I wanted to let go of my baggage from the past. Every day I would write down a list of everything I desired, I didn’t know The Magic then, so I didn’t make a list of gratitude, but I did appreciate things in life slowly and surely. And every day I wrote down “fresh start”.
Two months later on the first day of spring at 8 am in the morning, I received a text message from my ex. We hadn’t seen or spoken to each other for over a month. He asked me if I still loved him, even just a little bit. I said yes, forever. He then said me too, you have always been the one who made me happy. I felt a click in my head, it was like the Universe had set all this up.
Later I found out that it was his wedding day, and that he messaged me before he went to his wedding, and when he saw my “yes forever” message, he left his bride for me. I know this might sound terrible, that I ruined his wedding, and someone’s life. But he had only been dating that girl for 3 months and needed a visa. What I am trying to say is, the moment I LET GO, the moment I gave up on making him love me and instead focused on my own bliss and achievements, that is when the wheels were set in motion by the universe.
Little did I know that all events, circumstances, people and decisions were being shifted by the universe, so that at that precise moment, he would wake up and realize what was truly in his heart, genuine love for me, not for someone else. The universe works inside you, within you. I let go, entrusted everything to me and the universe, and the universe shifted so that true, genuine love would win at the end.
And I achieved all my goals after finding The Secret. I only got the flu once in 2 years and it lasted one day. I passed my exams without studying, I graduated according to my set timeline, I landed my dream job, I got my driver’s license, I traveled to Asia. I got plastic surgery, I bought my own car, I met celebrities I use watch online as motivation to get a fit body. I spoke to celebrities I used to see only on the net. I got a $25,000 loan within a week of application. I got clear skin, best relationships with friends and family in ever, just wow!
I know The Secret is real because I NEVER WOULD HAVE THOUGHT I COULD HAVE ANY OF THESE things before I knew The Secret. I got all my desires in two years. My goals now are to be a professional athlete, to have a millionaire lifestyle, own a house overlooking the beach and own my dream sports car. Also to travel to USA and marry my best friend and soul mate. I will write another Secret Story when I have achieved those.
The key is letting go. Letting go means entrusting the Universe that it will deliver you the best outcomes. Letting go is the hardest part I think. Letting go is risky. I let myself find happiness alone, as I used to think nothing is enjoyable in life if you are single and have nobody to share it with. Another key is feeling satisfied and happy. Appreciating life as it is, and feeling as if you are a creator and you have the power to get everything you want. The more unrealistic the goal, the better.
I told my mum I will own a house overlooking the beach but it has it’s own backyard pool and spa. She said that is WAY too expensive and worth millions, it is impossible.
I just smiled because I felt it was already mine. I will update you when I’ve signed the home papers. 😉