I proved a point to myself
from Ellicott City
Starting with a big THANK YOU to the whole team of The Secret. Not only has it helped me achieve my goals, but it has also helped me be a better person, calmer, a lot more positive and confident. After almost a yearís struggle for a job, I went on to get a job and have all the hurdles cleared in just one and a half months. Everything happened on almost the dates I had imagined (with just a difference of 1-2 days at times).
I am an immigrant, and a lot of paperwork had to be taken care of before I was to be able to legally start work. Most importantly, I wasnít even getting interview calls, and whatever little were coming werenít materializing, as I was not in a position to relocate. This put me in a constant pressure to relocate from my home. I was in a very sad place, when realized this way I would be a depressed wreck in no time, and something needs to be done.
I have used The Secret before and knew about it, but this time I was so lost that I couldnít even get myself to apply it properly, hence no results were happening.
But one day I picked up The Secret book and firmly said to myself, "If The Secret really works, itís going to work for me." I started using it and thanking the universe like I had a job, bought a few formal clothes, and basically prepared for my life in the office. I kept concentrating on the outcome I wanted to have and not on my present situation.
And then things started happening. There came a position right in my husbandís office. It suited my profile and I gave the interview. Then came the first hurdle - the interview didnít go well and they didnít seem impressed. I was broken and cried, as this was a very good opportunity. By the evening I pulled myself together and said to myself, "This job is mine," (I kept repeating it constantly as if in a trance). Soon I got a call from the office saying I was on hold, and they had actually liked me but wanted to check out a few more candidates first. I was smiling to myself, and said, "Take as many interviews as you want, this job is mine." (Not the reaction I would normally have - I would have considered it a lost case by now).
They finally decided I was the best for them and took me in. A few paperwork stages had to clear before I could begin. I kept on using The Secret. There were a few hurdles again. However I was positive and happy most of the time. When I felt low I just typed my goal repeatedly and read it over and over again, making myself happier. Soon this stage cleared. Well, in time, just as I wanted. I was surprised at myself as I had done so well.
Then came stage two. This time again I kept typing my goal repeatedly to keep myself positive. It really put me in a place where I felt good and believed every word I typed. It took me away from the present situation of 'may happen/may not happen.í Most importantly I taught myself to not give any energy to the negative thoughts and hurdles. I stayed happy even if I knew things werenít as smooth as I would like them to be. I prayed hard and relaxed the rest of the day, concentrating on my final goal.
This stage normally gets cleared in 10-14 days after application, for me it happened in two days (though the application process itself took a little longer). This was a miracle, I was ecstatic. I have never considered myself lucky, but I felt so blessed and lucky (and my friends called me so), due to Godís grace and The Secretís positivity.
Now everything is splendid, I feel out-of this world and very content. I have been going to the office for fifteen days now. My husband is around so I like it even more. The pay isnít as good as Iíd like, but I know money will come.
I have shared the story with so much detail, as I want people to feel The Secret as I felt when I read other peopleís stories. I wasnít positive all the time during this whole process, but I was a lot more positive than I have ever been. And I have seen more good things happen (in a row) to myself, than I have ever seen. To stay positive I did the following:
1) Repeated my goal to myself a few time in a day and then relaxed.
2) Wrote it in a mail and read it.
3) Prayed hard to God.
4) Stayed happy and relaxed.
5) Read stories from this site.
6) Saw The Secret movie repeatedly.
7) Did things I would have done after achieving my goal, behaving as if everything was already in place.
Hope God fulfills all your dreams. It took me a while to figure out how to use The Secret, but now I know I can achieve anything in life. Thanks a lot everyone.
About RGR from Ellicott City:
A happily married woman with big and beautiful dreams in her eyes.